Screw Ups

It’s impossible to do any kind of work in the public eye without sometimes slipping up. Occasionally, these errors can hold grave consequences. But it’s unavoidable; we’re all human and we all screw up sometimes. The best of us try to learn from our missteps, working hard to minimize future errors, and quickly rectifying any damage done. We’ll never totally …

Confidence vs. Certainty

We all desire to be viewed as competent; knowing exactly what it is we’re supposed to be doing. We want our family, our friends, and our clients to hold us in high regard; to view us as experts in our field. All too often, in our quest to be viewed as the authority, we confuse confidence with certainty. Being certain …

The Hacks

Are we hacks? The title “hack” often carries with it a negative connotation, but it shouldn’t be that way. A hack is someone who delivers exactly what a customer is looking for, often a little cheaper than everyone else. We need hacks. There are customers out there who are looking for hacks, actively searching them out, wanting to work with …

Looking for That One

Starting something new, like a new business, can be frustrating. We try to pitch our idea, our service, or our product, but most people we encounter have no real interest in listening to us. If we walk into each interaction with the belief that we’re great, our product is great, our service is great, and everyone is going to love …

Much More Money

There’s a pattern to the way that most businesses handle customer problems: Deny, deny, deny, and make them go away as quickly as possible. Most businesses today choose to do the bare minimum. What’s the least that I can do and still play by the rules? And, unfortunately, it often works. They still stay in business. The customers just keep …

Give Them Some Space

We’d love it if everyone was on board with everything that we wanted. Wouldn’t that be great! The world would be such a lovely place! Unfortunately, it’s not quite that simple. No matter how right we think we are, we can’t make people agree with us. Everyone has their own thoughts and opinions. The best we can do is lay …

Exercising Judgement

“Judgment—the ability to combine personal qualities with relevant knowledge and experience to form opinions and make decisions—is the core of exemplary leadership,” according to Noel Tichy and Warren Bennis in their book Judgment: How Winning Leaders Make Great Calls. In today’s world, it’s not too often we’re called upon to exercise our judgement. The companies we work for, the organizations …

Who Knows Me Best?

It’s easy to think we’re doing worse than everyone else. Hell, social media is happy to reinforce this belief 24/7. We’re always running behind, trying to catch up to some imaginary goal that’s always right beyond our reach. That coworker, that business, that relative, that industry, that stranger is doing better than I am, and I’ve got to catch up. …

What’s The Best Car?

Is there a best car? Surveys and marketing tell us there is, but is there really just one best car? If we need to tow an enormous trailer, is a Tesla Model S going to work? If we’ve got to get all 9 family members to dinner, is that BMW M4 Coupe really our best option? If we’re delivering pizzas …

The Hardest Part

We’d all like to be better. We’d like to get better at our job. We’d like to improve our relationships. We’d like to be more healthy; get in better shape. We’d like to be in a better place; mentally. We’d all like to improve our finances. We’d like to be better at holding our tongue, controlling our emotions, knowing what …